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Is It My Fault That He's Angry? (My Counselor Said I'm Enabling Him)
Wondering if your spouse’s anger is your fault? If you work at keeping your spouse happy so he doesn’t get angry, it’s important to know the distinction between enabling and causing his anger - and how to stop.
His Indifference is Destroying Our Relationship (Or is it me?)
If your husband is indifferent and doesn’t seem to care about your concerns, what can you do about it? Here are 3 ways you can spark change.
How to Handle Someone’s Behavior (and Get Them to Change)
When you’ve tried everything to deal with someone’s mean, rude, angry, or uncaring behavior, you might wonder what else you could do to handle their behavior. There is one thing you might not have thought of. And it could change everything.
The 5 Stages of an Unhealthy Relationship
There are stages to unhealthy relationships. Find out what stage you’re in and get tips to help you successfully navigate the stage you’re in.
7 Mistakes That Are Ruining Your Relationship (You definitely do #7)
If your relationship isn’t getting better even though you’re doing these things, they might actually be ruining your relationship. Learn what to do instead to make your relationship better, more mutual, and healthier.
3 Tips from the Bible on Dealing with Narcissists
Narcissism is a buzz word these days. As a Christian, what should our response be to a narcissist? The Bible gives three clear tips on dealing with narcissists.
How Do People Become Narcissists? (And Abusive)
What causes someone to be a narcissist? If you are close to someone who uses control, gaslighting, manipulation, anger, yelling, physical violence, or any other number of control tactics, it can help to know how they got that way - and what, if anything, can make them change. .
Why We Shouldn't Stop Using the Term Victim
There’s a movement in DV (domestic violence) circles to stop using the term “victim.” But maybe we shouldn’t stop using that term. Here’s why.
The Wrong Response When Someone is Being Hurt
What’s the best way to respond to a bully? If you respond the wrong way, it does more harm. And bullies can grow up to be abusers.
How to Help Your Husband Be A Better (Man, Husband, Father)
Does your husband need to be a better husband or father? Does he suffer from depression, anxiety, or an addiction? Find out how to help him be a better man.
The Perfect Man (There IS such a thing!)
Hallmark movies portray the perfect man winning the woman’s heart. Does it leave you feeling like you’re missing out? You’re not! He’s out there - and he’s waiting for you. If you’re feeling lonely or rejected, read on.
What If He's Not Worthy Of Respect? (I Can't Believe The Advice This Expert Gave)
You know that you should respect your husband, but what if he is not worthy of respect? A Christian marriage expert got it dangerously wrong, but there’s another way.
Having Expectations May Be The Only Thing That Makes Your Marriage Better
Have you heard that you shouldn’t have any expectations in marriage? Here’s why that is terrible advice - and the expectations you SHOULD have in marriage.
When Every Special Day Is Ruined (5 Survival Tips for Special Days With Your Spouse)
Does every special day with your spouse get ruined because someone gets upset? These 5 steps will help you survive those special days - and maybe even save the rest of them from ruin.
The One Question That Reveals What’s Wrong in a Marriage (And it’s not a marriage problem)
Are you a pastor or counselor who would like one simple question to ask that will reveal what’s wrong in a marriage? The answer to this question will forever change how you counsel couples. You can’t counsel unhealthy marriages as though they have the capacity to be healthy. Here’s what you should do instead.
How Can I Know If My Marriage Is Getting Better?
Have you wondered how marriages can fall apart after years and years of being together? Has your marriage been to the brink and now you’re trying again to make it work? Are you wondering if it will last this time? Let’s explore what’s gone wrong and how to make it right.
Financial Abuse (And What the Bible Says About Separation)
Feeling like you need to move out but you can’t afford to? And, even if you could, what does the Bible say about separation?
Is My Spouse a Christian? (He Says He Is / She Says She Is)
If your spouse says he/she is a Christian and does Christian things but there’s another side to them, it’s reasonable to wonder if they’re actually a Christian. But how would you know? Let’s go to Scripture and find out.
My Husband Won't Stop Looking At Porn
Pornography is common, even in the church; but common doesn’t make it OK. The Bible says that one who sins sexually sins against his own body. So what is a spouse to do when she discovers that her husband is looking at pornography? And what if he doesn’t stop?
What Does The Bible REALLY Say About Divorce?
When you’re faced with divorce, you want to know what the Bible really says about it. Many in the church say that the Bible says “don’t do it,” but is that thinking the result of living for God’s love or from it? Does God want us to sacrifice ourselves on the altar of marriage? Let’s search Scripture together to see what God says about the D-word . . . and what it doesn’t say.